Not Watching The Super Bowl Party

This is what I will be doing. Not Watching. Doing any and everything but watching that game.

Care to join me?

Also not watching Lassie Come Home on Turner Classic Movies. Truth be told I like animal movies even less than I do American Football. This is uncovering stuff about me, I would just as soon ignore.

I hate movies like this. I feel even more alienated from J because she likes them.

Candlemas / Groundhog Day / Imbolc

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Last night, 1 February, The Church celebrated the Vigil Mass for the Solemnity of The Presentation of Our Lord, also known as Candlemas. The priests bless the candles used during the year at the altar and The Pascal Candle used during Eastertide.

Candles are associated with light and so it is appropriate that the Mass begins around dusk, as the light of the sun wanes. The Presentation of the Infant Jesus at The Temple in Jerusalem is recounted in The Gospel of St Luke. Simeon, a pious old man, sees the Christ Child and states that he can now die (depart) in peace, since he has just seen The Messiah. “A Light to enlighten the gentiles”. This is the ancient Song of Saint Simeon.  (St Luke 2: 29-32). Hence the attention on light.

Outside, the congregation lights individual candles as night falls, then follows the priest into the Church, with only the altar candles burning and the candles the people hold. Jesus is the Light of The World.

We sat behind a family of eight, Mom, Dad, a daughter and five sons. The daughter, around eight, was the eldest of the children. She was the Substitute Mom, admonishing her brothers to be quiet while Mom was out changing the youngest, still in diapers. It was one of those scenes that convey the simple love behind family life.

The Presentation marks the end of the Christmas season and the last time the Precipio is on view. It is a large depiction of The Nativity Story, taking up the entire St Mary Altar and its chapel.

This is also the last time during The Liturgical Year that Alma Redemptoris Mater is the Marian Antiphon, chanted as the Recessional at the end of The Mass. The Marian Antiphons are a series of beautiful chants,honoring Mary, Mother of God, largely ignored in the Church these days, due to a misinterpretation of the rules around the Novus Ordo Mass. The Church and the culture at large are poorer places because of their neglect.

St Benedict Church, Richmond, VS
Precipio

Renewed

Today I renewed our membership at the Virginia Museum Of Fine Arts. And I stayed around to check some exhibitions, Renaissance and Mannerist Art, English Silver, and the Faberge Collection of Russian Easter Eggs.

To be fair, I spent very little time with the Faberge. I just noticed a stunning icon.

Russian Icon Madonna and Child
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The English Silver is rather impressive. I was particularly taken with this casting.

Hebe (Daughter of Zeus and Hera)

After my brief foray into Culture, I went to Kuba Kuba, the original in The Fan. I had the codfish cake and eggs. The fish has a nice enchilada sauce with capers.

All in all, a nice sojourn.

The Agony Of Defeat

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What defeat am I talking about?

I fixed a curry tonight with chicken, celery, carrot, mushrooms, garlic, leeks, and fresh pineapple. I used a tikka masala powder, along with some cardamom, fennel seed and turmeric. I cooked it on the stove top then garnished with raisins, hearts of palm, cocoanut, and pine nuts. I served over rice.

Well I guess it was a little too spicy and J was not that happy with it. I liked the basic idea behind the curry, but the spicing was too hot for J’s palette. I am crushed. I know it’s just one meal. Still cooking is one of the ways I feel validated by J as a human being and a husband.

I knew I was taking a risk with the tikka masala. Still I wanted her to sing my praises to the Highest Heaven.

There will be a next time.  Pity Party over.

Tikka Masala Powder Used.

Fixed.

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We have this Delta faucet that I was reticent to repair, cowed by my inner voices that berate me for my imagined mechanical incompetence.

But how does one gain competence?” You ask.

By doing the activities that make one competent”, answers The Wise One. (Feel free to use your Yoda voice).

So I declared today would be the day the faucet got fixed. I watched a You Tube video that walked me through the repair. First It said shut off the water by turning the valves off under the sink. Then take the faucet apart. Next I replaced the springs, seats, and “O” rings. Then reassemble.

Whaddaya know!

It worked. I did a simple home repair.

Then I figured out why the toilet valve never drops properly after the flush. A five second repair. Something was blocking the action.

Then I plunged the slow drain in the bathroom sink and cleaned out the crud in the drain.

I am in awe of myself!

AWWWWW!!!

Tuesday Trains. Wistful.

I’m watching a freight now, headed North to Who Knows Where. It carries tank cars with chemicals, empty refuse receptacles, plain box cars, one of which bears a stunning fresco of graffiti. (We could write about how creating beauty in this culture is an act of vandalism. That begs the question, “What is all that stuff in the museums then?”)

South bound #89 The Palmetto passes through, bound for Savannah. I have a private fantasy of a certain woman in Savannah boarding that train Northbound for a clandestine tryst, dirty, sweaty liaison, purging our bodies of the potential energy stored too long.

I want to drink the coffee I brewed. And just sit some more,wondering when J will return.

Every Day

Every day I get the op-ed page from The New York Times in my email. The editor is a chap named David Leonhardt.

Each time I read the first few words, I ask myself

Who cares?

It has been a long trip down the road to irrelevance for The Grey Lady.

And New York. Art Deco, I fear, is but Woody Allen’s memory.

It’s all gone. Like The Old Penn Station.

Jerome Kern,The Gershwins, Cole Porter, The Talking Heads, by golly, replaced by Disney musicals.

Nobody speaks Yiddish anymore, goes to The Catskills, or does piece work sewing.

The great grandchildren of these seamstresses live in. Westchester, work on Wall Street or publishing.

Their measure of success has moved beyond escape from tenement.

And this City lives more on its memories than its dreams, just like everywhere else.

Three Females

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They’re together at the Publix.

In the ‘burbs of Richmond, not the hippest place, but right now,

Who cares?

Two lesbians, their daughter, who’s maybe five but still rides in the cart.

The butch one is tall, a champ at androgyny, the shoulder length thinnish hair, John Lennon hippie glasses, fifty years from The Day. The plaid shirt, a drab, but harmonious assemblage in beige and brown.

The femme wears a skirt of paisley with green tones, a sweater, maybe mohair, magenta, maybe too.

The daughter rides in the cart, quietly. Her glasses, little kid glasses, are held on her head with string attached at each temple.

They buy groceries.

What else does one do at Publix?

This is what queer looks like in 2020.