Intimacy. Am I crazy or is emotional intimacy (closeness) tied up with physical intimacy (sex) for any of y’all?

I don’t feel close to my wife emotionally because we aren’t physically intimate (have sex). We are friendly, even loving (platonically) and it’s not bad. But marriage should be many, many steps above “Not Bad”. This needs to get communicated to her,I know. And the building blocks to trust need some mortar, if you catch my drift.

Thanks, friends.