I am sitting here, comfortable, warm, indolent, desirous.
Do I risk everything in 2019 to make my marriage a marriage? You know, a relationship with physical intimacy. But here’s the kicker to that. The physical intimacy is the tip of the proverbial iceberg. In order for the door of sex to open, there are other doors in the passage that need to open first.
Here’s the crusher. My pretenses, my facade have to go away. Only I can release them. Yikes! So I am back to wrestling with that conundrum. But then again what have I got to lose?
andi long said:
I have found you to be so open and honest with your words. A source of comfort because I am in the same boat. His disability for the last 36yrs out of 38 yrs of marriage has been hard but lack of intimacy has destroyed me. Please speak to her before there is nothing left of you..
i say go for it! ❤ Just GO FOR IT. ❤
Banzai! As the Samurai would say.
Yep, I’m with Jade and andi. Give it a shot.