This is my younger son. We had lunch the other day at our favorite Cubano restaurant Kuba Kuba Dos.

He ordered the coconut risotto cakes. We sat and talked about nothing important, but between my sons and me, every conversation is vital.

He talks of his work, his investing ideas, his dog, his cousin’s wedding plans, I tell him of the diabetes diagnosis, getting my flexibility back. Just stuff.

Who knew that just sitting with your adult children would be such fun?