I do all kinds of things to hide out. Mostly they are “activities”. I’m being busy, waiting for the chance for something exciting, exotic, or just plain memorable to happen. This is not unique to me and it’s certainly not a waste of time. Because there’s a lot of time between the exciting, exotic or memorable events of life. There are gaps to be filled.
So I swim. In the water I get lost. In my thoughts. In time. In my workout. I love feeling the water on my body as I swim. I love how my muscles feel. I don’t care much about my pace or whether I am moving quickly or slowly. I fantasize that a woman desires me because I swim, that she finds me attractive, that I’m wanted.
And I cook. I love the smells, the sounds of a whirring blender, vegetables frying, the colors of the vegetables and fruits. I love to see heavy cream turn into whipped cream. I love sharing what I cook with others.
And I try not to think about the void in Passion. The Love is there. Good old Love. Old Love, soon-to-be geriatric Love. Selfless Christian Sunday School Love. But I need Passion, too. Passion that can flower because that Love is there. Put all the chips on Passion. Tattoo your name inside a heart on my bicep Passion. Staying awake after one fuck, just so we can have another go Passion. No “good” manners, dirty-talkin’ Passion that would make your friends blush on the outside, while they die of envy.
“Life goes on, long after the thrill of living is gone.”– John Mellencamp