I have decided to close this blog. I am also considering getting rid of my cell phone and closing my e-mail accounts. I have had enough of the cyber world.
As soon as I can figure out how to move the blog entries some place else I will be gone.
13 Tuesday Feb 2018
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I have decided to close this blog. I am also considering getting rid of my cell phone and closing my e-mail accounts. I have had enough of the cyber world.
As soon as I can figure out how to move the blog entries some place else I will be gone.
09 Friday Feb 2018
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Thomas Merton was a Trappist monk. A convert to Catholicism after a somewhat dissolute youth, he chose the consecrated and contemplative life. His autobiography The Seven Storey Mountain is a classic of Twentieth Century literature.
I don’t think you have to be Catholic or even particularly religious, to find a big chunk of truth in this quote.
03 Saturday Feb 2018
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Two AM. At three-thirty, I will drive down to St Benedict for my Holy Hour, my time before the Precious Body of Christ, my time with Our Lord. I don’t really understand metaphysics. What I do know is that this time has been transformative for me. So I continue to give Our Lord this hour in particular every month.
It is not about good social policy, social justice, or helping the poor. But this time makes me a better Catholic, a better Christian.
Holy Hour makes a crack in the wall of selfishness that surrounds my being. Through this crack enters a serenity a peace. The serenity comes from knowing that I don’t have to change the whole world, just me. I can be a little more respectful, a little quieter, more accepting of the way people are, people like my wife or my children, for starters.
We want grand solutions to the problems of this world. We think these solutions to problems like war or intolerance or poverty can be constructed as if those solutions were Saturn rockets or polio vaccines. Maybe the grand solution is by losing, a little bit every day, that wall of selfishness. That selfishness is not only our greed or hunger or lust, but also our hurts and our pains that we use to separate ourselves from others.
By the way, none of that losing is easy. It demands a daily surrender to God.
23 Tuesday Jan 2018
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OK. I turned 67 Sunday. We went to brunch at the Henry Clay Inn in Ashland. We had fun. Yesterday my new glasses came in. Today I got a haircut. I look different. I wish I could say more. Only I can’t.


17 Wednesday Jan 2018
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It is one of those nights where the pain is winning. It isn’t horrible, just persistent. The distractions that help, sleeping on my side with a DVD of Seinfeld episodes playing, aren’t working. My back-up plan, sleeping in the other bed listening to Portuguese Fado music, has been put into action. My beautiful angel Mariza is now working her magic.
Wish me luck,
08 Monday Jan 2018
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Who cares?
I care less about the Golden Globe Awards than I do about Prince Harry and Meghan.
07 Sunday Jan 2018
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What’s the saying, “Why do it if it isn’t fun?” Let’s be real. Sometimes cooking isn’t fun. Like it’s work and the budget for food is small ’cause there ain’t no money. Then again there are opportunities that cry out for creativity.
Friday, there was almost an entire half gallon of milk with a “sell by” date of 30 December. It figuratively was imploring me to use it. Add to the ingredient pool two bars of Ghirardelli Baking Chocolate, one 100% Cacao, the other Semi-Sweet. Last night we made real hot chocolate with melted 100% Cacao. Just melt 2 oz of the chocolate, mixing it into a cup of water, Add sugar. Then add three cups of milk. Bring it almost to boiling. There are more steps but that is the gist of it. You will wonder why you ever use that instant hot cocoa mix, especially with the vile desiccated marshmallow marbles.
Today I melted two ounces of the Semi-Sweet in a double boiler, dissolved that in milk and added it to Cook and Serve Vanilla Pudding as it cooked. I added a shake or two of cinnamon, just because the cinnamon was within easy reach. That received a nod of spousal approval. Now there was a cup of milk left from the short-dated half gallon. A cup of Hot Ovaltine finished that off.
I did not let the milk go bad. Mother and Dad would have been proud. The calories consumed is another question.
30 Saturday Dec 2017
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Meghan Markle and Prince Harry. If you weren’t unimaginably wealthy, I would pay you to just go away.
25 Monday Dec 2017
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Love and Sex
Power and Sex
Power and Love
I’ve been thinking about these too much maybe. We live in a world where boundaries collapse like houses of cards.
More later.
Merry Christmas.
20 Wednesday Dec 2017
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