It is impossible to make a woman happy. They will find something to be upset about. They will take that upset out on a spouse.

If you have children from prior marriage(s), those children are her enemies. Because you might love them more than you love her. If those children upset me, my wife gets mad at them, which doesn’t help me. If I tell her dealing with her upset and the adult child’s upset, is doubly agonising, she piles on.

It’s not like she doesn’t know that my son can be opinionated, stubborn, and immature, at times. But when he gets that way, she chooses to be bitchy, too.

If you have kids, and get divorced, do not remarry. Even if that person can suck the chrome off a tailpipe.

End of rant.