People respond to you differently when they know you aren’t out to fuck them. By “fuck”, I mean that literally, especially how men come across to women.
Letting go of the “seducer” persona, took me a lot of work. It meant getting honest with who I really am, a truly loving person, wishing to be more selfless than selfish. Do I fail? Frequently. Do I see women that are absolutely attractive? Every day and I don’t need to act on that attraction.
There is serenity in knowing what one’s boundaries are. Observe them.