I’m sitting downstairs pondering my justification for adultery. I have not had sex with my wife in twenty one years.
That’s a long stretch.
Do I stay and have the long painful conversation? Or just leave.
Stay and talk is the choice.
Excuse Me While I Go Crazy
22 Sunday Sep 2024
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Dispatches From Dystopia 
I would say that the only sex you should have had was with your wife.
Take care!
There are lots of way to do marriage, my friend. I would talk to your wife, open up to her about how you are feeling. Who knows where that may lead. I hope the two of you can find something that works better for you both. For my husband and I, that meant opening up our marriage a bit. We have a ton of boundaries in place, but we are able to enjoy our deep friendship and commitment to one another, while also exploring a bit sexually (with each other’s consent). We’ve been together 22 years. It’s YOUR marriage. Try not to think too much about what society has deemed right or wrong. Wishing you the best of luck. Your situation sounds very painful.